Food bloggers are an eclectic bunch, but one thing I’ve noticed is that many of us are not parents. Which makes sense as I’d imagine that parents either don’t want to or can’t afford to eat out five times a week. Or a combination of both.
As the title of this post suggests, I’m several months away from joining the parent club, and on the long list of things I’m nervous about is the question of what’s going to happen to this restaurant/travel blog. (Suggestions?)
For now, though, I thought I’d talk about all the food restrictions I’ve been trying to observe these last six months.
I consider myself an omnivore with all sorts of cravings (even when not pregnant). So the long list of pregnancy-related dietary prohibitions have chafed, to say the least. I especially dislike how, most of the time, the prohibitions don’t even bother explaining *why* something is prohibited, which is so patronizing that I get angry all over again thinking about it.
Let’s start, for example, with the following excerpt from the NHS guidelines on eating when pregnant (which of course overlaps with, and occasionally conflicts with, several other pages on the NHS site, like this one and this one):
- Do cook eggs thoroughly until the whites and yolks are solid. Avoid any foods that contain raw or lightly cooked eggs, such as home-made mayonnaise, sauces and puddings.
- Do make sure that all meats are cooked thoroughly. This is especially important with poultry (such as chicken and turkey) and food made from minced meat (such as burgers and sausages). Make sure that they’re very hot all the way through, and there’s no trace of blood or pink meat. Treat all meat at barbecues with caution.
- Don’t eat mould-ripened soft cheese, such as brie and camembert, or blue cheese, such as stilton or Danish blue. You can eat hard cheeses (e.g. cheddar, parmesan), cottage cheese, mozzarella, and processed cheese (such as cheese spread).
- Don’t eat any kind of paté, including vegetable paté, because it can contain listeria.
- Don’t eat liver or liver products, such as liver paté or liver sausage, as this is a very rich source of vitamin A (which can harm your unborn baby).
- Don’t eat more than two portions of oily fish a week (for example, mackerel, trout or fresh tuna), or more than four cans of tuna (around 140g per can). These contain high levels of mercury, which can harm your baby’s developing nervous system.
- Don’t eat marlin, shark or swordfish. These can contain high levels of mercury, which can damage your baby’s developing nervous system.
- Don’t eat raw shellfish, as they can contain bacteria and viruses that can cause food poisoning.
If you’re aything like me, the list above might as well be titled “Delicious Things You Love and Eat Regularly That You Can’t Eat for 40 Weeks . . . for No Clearly Articulated Reason (other than “trust us, it’s bad for your baby”).”
Being a naturally skeptical person, I started googling around to find out what risks really underlie all these Dietary Do’s and Don’ts. God bless google because on my first search, I came across this July 2007 piece in the New York Times, which opened with this compelling paragraph:
“WHEN my wife was pregnant with our son, her obstetrician gave her a list of food dos and don’ts. Chief among the don’ts: alcohol, unpasteurized cheeses and raw fish. Meanwhile, every French mother I know consumed alcohol and unpasteurized cheese in moderation during her pregnancy, and my friends in Japan laugh at the notion of avoiding sushi when they’re expecting.”
And at least with regard to sushi, I was encouraged by this bit:
“Healthy women who’ve been eating sushi are not at increased risk when they become pregnant. The same resistance and immunities function before, during and after pregnancy.
But rational analysis doesn’t hold sway with the pregnancy police.
“Why take any risk?” they ask. The medical establishment and the culture at large have twisted logic around to the point where any risk, no matter how infinitesimal, is too much. So powerful is this Puritanical impulse that, once a health objection is raised, however irrational the recommended behavior, it’s considered irresponsible to behave any other way.”
And then, as is the way with google research, that New York Times article led me to this blog post, which started me on the path to the way I’m currently eating:
“First, I did a lot of research about every prohibition. What was the reason for it? And what was the risk and the consequence? I found that you could divvy up the guidelines into two groups: illnesses that crossed the placental barrier and affected the fetus, and those that didn’t. To put it another way, would eating something make me any sicker because I was pregnant than if I weren’t? Or would the outcome be the same?”
So I did pretty much what the blogger-author did — I started researching each and every prohibition, particularly on the foods I eat all the time, and I decided to avoid foods that are banned because they contain listeria and continue eating foods that are banned because they cause food poisoning. For example, to the lovers of poached eggs who happen to be pregnant, see this March 2010 Guardian Word of Mouth blog post on eggs and salmonella risk:
Not only is the risk of catching salmonella small, the risk of it affecting your unborn child is almost unheard of. The infection won’t pass through the placenta to the foetus, unlike listeria which can do untold harm. However, after reading on the New Zealand government website that in very rare instances it can cause stillbirth, I thought it best to double check.
According to Patrick O’Brien, consultant obstetrician at UCH and a spokesperson for the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, in severe cases of salmonella the related dehydration and high fever in the mother could cause a problem for the foetus, just as with any other infection, but these are generally symptoms which are well managed by medical professionals. He has dealt with some extremely severe cases of salmonella and none have caused any harm to the foetus. It is worth noting, however, that in the spirit of never say never he would not completely rule out an instance in which salmonella could cause harm directly to the foetus. It seems that it is all very low risk, and it has left me questioning the official advice which still recommends that pregnant women avoid raw or partially cooked eggs, and wondering whether it’s worth being quite so assiduous.
So. Bearing in mind that I’m no doctor and that for a lot of people, it’s not a big deal to just follow the Dos and Don’ts as prescribed by most pregnancy books and websites, I thought I’d share the above. Just in case you’re pregnant and have been dying for oysters, sushi, dolsot bibimbap or eggs benedict.
Currently, however, I remain very excited by the future prospect of a bloody rare burger, some extra-runny Saint Marcellin cheese, a platter of jamon iberico, a good pate and gallons of champagne when la bebee finally arrives. But I have a feeling that when that day is finally upon me, “sleep” will leapfrog to the top of that list of desired things.




Oh hey, you kept that quiet!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
My wife’s asked me to bring her sushi in the hospital after her delivery. This, soft cheese and deli meats have been the hardest.
Good luck and enjoy your pregnancy!
Actually, one of the points I was trying to make (apparently unsuccessfully) is that in the UK, the risks of eating sushi while pregnant don’t seem higher than when you’re not pregnant. So you might be more likely to feel awful if you’re eating sushi that’s gone bad, but it’s not going to kill your baby. Which is all to say – sushi is one of those things I’ve continued eating (at reputable sushi places, of course) about once a week.
Good on you for doing proper research.
I have to say, as a 5 month pregnant food blogger and overall food lover, Im finding it hard to go to many of the restaurants I visited pre-pregnancy. I want all the things I cant have and find that its just best to stick to the basics. And some things, (rabbit, venison…. ) arent listed as good or bad so my Dr added them to the list of donts. A few months left to go and then wine, cheese, and homemade ice cream galore. Congrats on your pregnancy!
“And some things, (rabbit, venison…. ) arent listed as good or bad so my Dr added them to the list of donts.”
That kind of reasoning drives me nuts . . . “we’re not sure if it’s safe or not, so just don’t eat it.”
Also re: homemade ice cream – according to what I was finding out (apparently badly summarized in my blog post), if you’re using good eggs, the odds of food poisoning seem to me worth chancing (as much as it’d be if you weren’t pregnant). Because it doesn’t sound like the baby would be harmed in the same way it would if we were talking about listeria risk.
Glad to hear you researched it rather than just accepting the norms. And congratulations!
I did the same researching (got a few months to go before I pop too!) and love this really fab article from Zoe Williams from 2007
http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2007/may/29/health.medicineandhealth
To be honest I am way more worried about the bit after I give birth when I have to take care of a baby . Then the amount of conflicting advice seems to go off the chart and when will I have time to do any cooking!
Congrats on the pregnancy
@Becky, that is a great article – thanks v much! And I can only imagine how all this pregnancy advice is just the tip of the iceberg. Yikes.
It’s a bitch isn’t it?!
. I really missed runny eggs. And wine.
@Johanna – Well, for the reasons above, I’ve continued eating runny eggs and the occasional glass of wine or champers (though now I try to make those glasses “really good” ones).
Oh best of luck to you and congratulations! We moved with our new baby and 4 year old to Nottingham in the 90′s so I missed the NHS pregnancy food warnings but I did deal with those of my OB/GYN here in the states and my head was swimming. I couldn’t wait to have my babies so I could have my body back . . . then I started nursing. I do have to say that at first I resented Health Visitor visits but I soon found in her a welcomed partner in the scary world of child rearing. Sometimes it seems like a baby’s whole purpose in life is to make their new parents worry. I understand that ends when they are about 30.
@Karen – I’ve been sort of amused reading both American and British pregnancy books because even between those two, the advice differs, with the American books generally being more stringent/prohibitive. So I can only imagine how much more annoyed I’d be, generally, by an ob/gyn in the US. The Midwives I’ve encountered here in the UK don’t proactively offer many tips, though I find if you ask them specific questions, the answers are varied and conflicting enough that I’ve stopped bothering with questions.
I once got food poisoning from eating sushi at a reputable fancy place in Mayfair. It was really awful and I had a hard time eating sushi after that. It was the hardest thing but I gave it up during pregnancy. But if I had never gotten sick I wonder if I would have continued eating it. I did sneak in smoked salmon once or twice. My obstetrician did tell me that I was more likely to get hit by a car that to eat shellfish with listeria. And if I was going to be so worried that I shouldn’t bother crossing the street. I think he was annoyed that I was neurotic American
Congratulations on this wonderful news!!! I understand you so well as I went through the same challenges of a long list of “dont’s”… But to be honest, I continued eating and drinking all that I was comfortable with. I did have cured meats from time to time (jamon, prociutto, etc.), I did have a glass of wine (once every 2 or 3 weeks), I had Japanese beer & sushi, I ate ice cream… the only things I avoided were tuna, raw meat & raw eggs…. I had a feast after pregnancy including foie gras, beef carpaccio and all possible stinky, smelly unpasturasised cheeses
So, pregnancy was not hard to combine with my passion for good food. What is a real challenge is to combine going out together with a kid… All of a sudden you would rediscover the city: in some places you would be able to come only for lunch; some are OK for dinner, but a very early one; some would not welcome kids at all & you need to ensure that you have a nanny or a relative handy to free you for the evening… And an exciting part is a discovery of new food places once you become a mother… Congratulations and many new discoveries!
I love that you have nutted all of this out – so many people will find this useful. It’s been lovely eating out with you while you’re pregnant knowing you’ve been able to enjoy so many of the same things that the rest of us were having!
Congratulations!
Reading about this reminded me of Amy of Blue Lotus and her experiences with dietary restrictions during pregnancy – intriguing as she’s in Japan where the rules seem to be different. It’s a pretty interesting read so you might find it useful too
http://blue_moon.typepad.com/blue_lotus/2010/09/pregnancy-in-japan-cultural-differences-part-three.html
@Charmaine – That blog post is a great read. Thanks for pointing it out. I like how the author points out how much lower Japan’s infant mortality rate is than that of the US. I think there’s a belief in the US that even if their list of Do’s and Dont’s varies greatly from that of other countries, that somehow the US norms should still take precedence because the US does a better job of ante-natal care. Recognizing that a lot of the pregnancy diet restrictions are just cultural norms is good to know, I think.
Congrats on your baby! While I am not pregnant myself, I have a few friends who are/recently have had babies and I would love to read about restaurants that are baby friendly. We all go to brunch a lot but sometimes try and book dinner together but only go back to places we’ve been since we know they’ll tolerate a baby. xx
@Natalie – Def a possibility (to cover baby-friendly restos), though I hope my blog doesn’t become a series of reviews about Carluccio’s and Med Kitchen, lol.
Exactly. The French drink wine, the Japanese eat sushi. I guess a lot of the regulations are cultural. Not that I’m endorsing boozing while preggers.
Congratulations on the pregnancy! I’m sure your blog will shift at least a little with the big change but I imagine it will be a great way to experience your new perspective.
I have to say I thought that you summarized your research and choices on food do’s and don’ts during pregnancy quite well. I am 7 months pregnant and have adopted much of the same approach as you have. I figure that women have been doing this whole pregnancy thing quite successfully for thousands of years and as long as I practice moderation my baby will just fine. So far, my GP/midwife seems to agree. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy!
@Su-Lin, Lizzie, Helen and Greedy Diva: Many thanks for the good wishes and encouragement.
@Lonestar: Yes, that’s a good point that the blog could become a nice way to experience a new perspective due to the life change. But it will be interesting to see if the blog necessarily has to shift from travel + restaurants to, say, cooking at home or baby-friendly restaurants.
@Jennifer – 7 months preggars and you’re organizing a move from the UK to Oz. Good luck!
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Happy to have found your webiste. Can you tell me where you thought was ok to eat sushi in London, please? I’m dying for some but all the ones I’ve spoken to say their salmon is fresh rather than flash frozen so they don’t recommend it.
Any suggestions gratefully received.